Zak’s story: “I’m proud of who I’ve become.”

I was born with a disability and I use a wheelchair. I also have a learning disability. I was a very non-talkative person till I was 7 and I had to use a type of sign language to communicate to my parents. 

I’ve been a wheelchair tennis player since I was 11. I’m also a gay man. I came out in lockdown in 2020. I think it was easier to tell people by text than in person.

I have an amazing team behind me, from my tennis coach Tony, a few of my family members, work colleagues and friends. When I came out, they were very supportive.  The unconditional support I’ve had from everyone, who accepted me as who I am, has been really important. 

I’m also a Welfare Ambassador for my tennis centre and a level 1 coaching assistant. The Welfare Ambassador role involves making sure the tennis centre is a safe place for young people - so they know they are in safe hands. If someone came out to me, I would support them by telling them I’m gay and giving them advice on how to speak to their family and friends about their sexuality and struggles. 

I do fear for young LGBTQ+ players.

From getting hurt to being called names at tournaments or in clubs, there are lots of things we have to worry about. In tournaments and practicing I think they should let players wear Pride tops and laces or decorate their wheelchairs to show who they are. We should all be allowed to be happy and confident with who we are. 

Since coming out, I’ve started working with LGBTQ+ organisations like Pride in Tennis. I believe that, no matter who you are, there is a huge community there waiting for you.

I am proud of who I have become today and I hope other LGBTQ+ tennis players will one day feel the same.

About the author – Zak Corbishley (he/him) is a Welfare Ambassador and a level 1 coaching assistant at South Ribble Tennis and Fitness Centre in Bamber Bridge, Lancashire. He also works as a customer assistant at Tesco and is involved in local politics in his home town.